She's on my massage table. I'm not thinking about anything in particular when a memory drops in, and it's not even mine. So I just say it. "Tell me about the time you lost a teddy bear." She goes completely still. "Wait — how do you know that?" In this post, I'm walking through why understanding your own pattern and actually being free of it are two completely different things — and what it really takes to close that gap. Prefer to listen? Here's the full episode. The Questio

You're driving. Radio's off, or maybe it's not, you're not really hearing it. And there it is again — that conversation from three weeks ago. Not the whole thing. Just the one line. Just the look on their face. In this post, I'm breaking down why a toxic interaction can keep replaying long after you thought you'd let it go, and what actually needs to happen in your body for it to finish. Prefer to listen? Here's the full episode. Talking About It Isn't the Same as Processing

There's something I keep seeing in my sessions lately, and if you've been asking yourself why am I so angry lately, I think you already know it in your body before I explain it. Picture a pendulum. On the far left is the good girl — agreeable, functioning, almost naive about what it's costing her to be this easy. This is what good girl syndrome looks like from the inside, and it tends to hold until perimenopause or something else starts pulling at the nervous system underneat

You hit the number. The launch, the revenue goal, the milestone you'd been chasing for years. And instead of the relief you expected, there's a quiet, uncomfortable question underneath it: why doesn't this feel better? That's the real reason so many high-achieving women can't slow down — even when every external marker says they've earned the right to. The Advice Doesn't Touch It You've heard it: don't forget to celebrate. Enjoy the moment. Be grateful for how far you've come

There's a version of burnout nobody warns you about. It's not the collapse-in-bed kind. It's deep fatigue with no clear cause, no motivation even when your day looks fine on paper, snapping at people you love, giving everyone else your best and coming home with nothing left over. Before anything else — if you're this exhausted, get your blood work done. Thyroid panel, iron, hormones. I ran this work for patients for years as a naturopath, and ruling out the physical stuff alw

When alcohol has a bigger impact on mood and intuition than you ever thought.

A few years ago I had a thought that made me go — oh my god, wait a second. Why not me? I'd been the background person my whole life. The one keeping everything running so everyone else could be out front. I was the crew, never the lead. And one day that question just showed up, uninvited: why can't I be the one out there? There's a moment in the movie The Holiday — Kate Winslet's character, after spending the whole film being the one everyone else leans on but no one ever re

I already knew she was getting engaged. Here's what actually happened - and what it says about how this work is different. ____________________________ Before every session, I do a card pull and an intuitive read. It's part of how I prepare - in order to arrive already open to whatever a person is carrying before they've said a word. This time, something was off. The cards didn't land the way they usually do. They felt like they were pointing at her, but not quite connecting

There’s a phase of business growth that doesn’t get talked about enough . It usually starts in a really empowering place. You decide to invest in yourself. In your business. In your next level. You hire a coach. And suddenly, things start moving. You’re making decisions faster. You’re refining your messaging. You’re creating new offers. You’re showing up more boldly than you have before. You’re being stretched and it’s exactly what you needed. For many women, this is the f

How to work with your body when your mind won’t slow down Anxiety isn’t just something happening in your thoughts. It’s something your body is doing . Racing heart. Tight chest. Shallow breath. Jaw clenched. Shoulders up around your ears. Somatic work helps you address anxiety from the bottom up - through the nervous system - rather than trying to think your way out of it. Below are gentle, effective somatic techniques for anxiety that help your body feel safer so your mind

I have a confession : I haven’t posted a blog in months. And honestly? I don’t miss it. Instead, I did something slightly unhinged—something that felt like a dare I gave myself in the middle of my coffee-fueled chaos: I started a podcast. Welcome to The Intuitive Drop , where we do more than just talk about emotional blocks, intuition, and getting your life unstuck—we actually feel it, laugh at it, and sometimes rage at it. Because let’s be real: pivoting in entrepreneurship

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